It can be ridiculously annoying when your fling won’t leave you alone. Some men have checked their phones to see hundreds of text messages, voicemails, and missed called notifications from their flings. If you find yourself on the receiving end of an annoying fling, there are ways to get her to leave you alone without resorting to anything too drastic.
Don’t Do Anything Drastic
When you’re fling won’t stop calling, the last thing you want to do is something completely drastic like changing your cell phone number or calling her back to scream at her. There are many different things you can do to make sure your fling gets the point without having to change things you are already comfortable with. Yelling at her and changing your number should be your very last resort.
After you’ve tried lying to her about how busy you are, or avoiding answering any of her calls, the next thing you should do is go back to answering her calls. When she calls you, allow her to talk, but make it seem like you’re busy and not listening. Do not respond back to most of her questions and get her to believe that you are doing something that is taking up most of your thought process. Chances are she will call back later. When she does, do the same thing again. Make her understand that talking to her is boring to you. Women hate knowing that men find them boring and she’ll get angry enough where she wants nothing to do with you. If that doesn’t work, try answering her calls when you are hanging out with your friends. Laugh with them while she is on the phone and make her think that you and your friends are talking about her. She’ll be too embarrassed to want to carry on a conversation with you.
When your fling won’t stop calling, turn the tables and call her. You may think this won’t work as she wants to speak to you, but it does. Do not just call her occasionally or randomly. Call her all the time. Call and text her throughout the day and chat with her about the most boring or disgusting topics you can think of. Talk about your girlfriend, your ex-girlfriend, your bathroom habits, and anything else you are certain she won’t want to hear.
Do not mention hanging out with her when you call. Do not ask her about her day or how she’s doing. Only talk about yourself and thinks that affect you personally. When she tries to get a word in, interrupt her or speak over her. Without saying so, let her know that the only reason you are calling is because you want to talk about yourself, not her.
These methods may make you feel like an ass, but they definitely get the point across. Sometimes it is necessary to be firm when your fling won’t leave you alone. The best way to do that is by making her realize that you aren’t as great as she thought you were.