Women can’t smell fear the way a feral dog can, but they can sense desperation the way a shark smells blood in the water. If you throw any of these three signs in their face, they’re going to back off so fast it’ll make your head spin. Sometimes, if you’re going through a dry spell, you can feel desperate. To increase your odds of actually scoring, avoid these three habits you might not even realize you’re doing.
Be Too Agreeable
There are nice guys in the world, and women legitimately want to meet them. And then there are guys who never have their own opinions. These men will agree with whatever the woman says, and while this is fun and refreshing at first, after half an hour the women are tired of talking to a mirror. If you find yourself agreeing with everything a beautiful woman says just because she’s talking to you, you need to scale back your attraction. Don’t pick a fight with her, but let her know that you have ideas of your own as well. It will make the times that you do agree with her even more memorable.
Spend Too Much Too Fast
There isn’t a woman alive who doesn’t like it when a man spends a little cash on her. But this means buying her a couple drinks or taking care of the movie tickets. If you start spending too much money on her too quickly, she’s not going to like it. She wants a successful, confident man. Spending too much cash in the first few dates says that you’re just desperate for a date. Any date. That doesn’t make her feel special. It makes her wonder what you’re compensating for. Save the expensive dates for after you and she have been together for awhile.
Try to Juggle Multiple Women
Really successful men juggle multiple women, and really unsuccessful men juggle multiple women. If you’re so desperate for a date that you can’t stand the thought of spending the night home alone, women are going to pick up on that. Even if you’re just looking for a fling relationship, women generally don’t like it when it’s obvious that you’re keeping lots of other women around. It doesn’t make you look cool or successful to let your hookups know about each other. Keep things on the down low, and you’ll have more success with ladies than you had when you tried to be “open” and “honest” and actually thrust the fact that you had a few flings in their faces.
Most desperate guys don’t have a reason to be nervous. They’ve gone through a dry spell; maybe they just got out of a relationship. In any case, they don’t have a reason to be as worried as they. Take a few deep breaths and remind yourself that you’ve got a lot to offer and there are plenty of women out there. Then cut down on these three desperate actions so that you stay cool as a cucumber while she’s making up her mind how far she’s going to go with you.