When you take a woman home and hook up, you have to plan for the next morning. You can’t just kick her out after you’re done, because that’s just not classy. No man worth his salt is going to treat a woman like a common prostitute. Not only is it just not done, but word gets around like wildfire. If you hook up with a woman and you make a major faux pas, she’s going to tell her friends. And trust us, friend, it will bite you in the ass. Facing the morning after really isn’t so bad, though, if you have the right approach. In fact, it can actually contribute to whether she decides to hit you up again for a hot night in the sack.
Make Her Breakfast
Make her breakfast, but don’t make her a romantic breakfast. There’s a distinct difference here. A basic breakfast that’s made up of typical ingredients – eggs, bacon – is polite. A breakfast that involves any flowers on tables or elaborate omelets is a no-no, unless you want a steady girlfriend. By making breakfast, though, you are showing that you’re a considerate guy who respects her. It’s just plain old hospitality, sex or not, and you can never go wrong with it. In fact, word also gets around this way.
Let Her Sleep
If she’s still asleep when you wake up, and it’s a reasonable time in the morning to still be asleep after a late night, let her stay that way. Again, set the boundaries up here. It’s fine to let her sleep if it’s early. If it’s noon, on the other hand, it’s time to get up. Don’t wake up at the same time you do for work and hand over her clothes. Again, it’s just not classy, and makes you look like a jerk. You can even get up if you want, but be considerate, and let her stay in bed for a while. As long as it’s clear that you’re not interested in an LTR, she probably just wants to catch as much sleep as possible after a long night out. The thing is, when she wakes up, she’s going to appreciate the fact that you were nice enough not to expect she leave as soon as you woke up.
Talk To Her
Don’t act weird and be that guy who doesn’t know what to say the morning after. There’s no reason you can’t talk to her the same way you were the night before. When men decide that suddenly, the woman they were attracted to is a different person, it comes across as really creepy. If a woman gets up and the guy she hooked up with can’t seem to bother to say more than a few words except, “goodbye,” she’s going to get offended. You don’t have to make any grandiose statements. Just play it cool. You’re both adults, you hooked up, you had a good time, and that’s all there is to it. Talk to her like she’s a person the morning after, and she’ll want to come back.