People like to talk about how stressful it is right after a fling. You may be feeling guilty or excited and unsure of what to do next. Dealing with the aftereffects of a fling isn’t hard. If you’re mature about it, it can actually be pretty easy.
After your first fling, you may be wondering what type of protocol you should have set up. Some guys think it’s best to leave immediately afterward and some think it’s okay to spend the night and make your escape in the morning. The truth is, the best way to figure out what steps to take after a fling is to communicate with the women you’ve just slept with. You’ve already slept with her, so you’ve gotten the hard part out of the way.
One thing you can do is to ask your fling if she wants to do something like this again, or if she prefers for the two of you to go your separate ways. Let her know that you’re cool with whatever her answer may be. Do not appear too desperate or hopeful as this will more than likely scare her off. If you aren’t interested in hooking up with her again, that’s fine, but don’t let her know that. If she says she wants to hook up again, take her number and tell her you’ll call her. After you leave, get rid of her number or save it in case you change your mind. If she says she’d rather not see you again, tell her you understand and leave. Don’t dwell on it. You’ve already got what you wanted from her anyway.
If you’re in a relationship, the first thing you want to do is check yourself after a fling. Look for things like scratches or hickeys all over your body that you wouldn’t be able to explain to your wife of girlfriend. Make sure to check your clothing for lipstick or perfume that your woman doesn’t wear. If you have the opportunity to take a shower before you see your wife or girlfriend, do so immediately. If not, try stopping someplace with a public restroom and washing up before you return home.
If your woman has no reason to doubt you, you can do something like going into a 24-hour store and purchasing mouthwash. Splash the mouthwash on you and tell her that you that cap was off and the bottle fell and got all over you. Of course, this lie works best if you were in need of buying mouthwash for your house in the first place. The smell of the mouthwash will successfully drown out any perfume fragrances or anything like that and your wife won’t be suspicious when you go to take a shower.
The moments after a fling don’t have to be as stressful and awkward as some people like to make them. The two of you have already gotten what you wanted and you can’t change the past. Be adults about it and make plans to hook up again, or thank each other for the good time and part ways.