Some women are upfront about what they want. They fill their profiles with direct statements about how often they want to have sex, the kind of guy they want it with, and what you can do to score. These women are one in ten thousand, and if you find her, hold on. The rest of the time, you have to do a little detective work to see what she’s really saying. There are some common phrases and what they really mean for your chances with her.
Hobbies: Keeping Fit
If she lists “exercising” or keeping fit under her hobbies and interests, this is direct code for “I have a great body, and so should you.” She doesn’t want to come right out and say that those with kegs instead of six packs need not apply, but she’s heavily hinting at it. She’s looking for some fun, and she’s promising that she’ll bring a smoking body if you bring one as well.
The Revealing Profile Pic
This might seem like it’s a straight up invitation to sext her, but the truth is that profile pictures have gotten a lot less worthy as a marker to see what she’s like in recent years. As women learned that the profiles with the most cleavage got the most hits, the risqué profile pic has gotten more and more popular. This could just be a siren song to get your attention. If she seems straight laced in every way but the push up bra profile, you’ve got a false alarm on your hands. She’s not looking for an easy hookup.
Message Me If: You’re Up for Anything!
This phrase has baffled men since Internet profiles were born. It might seem like “up for anything” is code for “down to fuck,” but that’s not always the case. More often, she didn’t know what to say. She wanted to sound fun and flirty, but she wasn’t ready to commit. That’s why she left it ambiguous. For a real invitation for a woman who just wants to meet and hook up, you should look for words to do so. “Message me if: You know how to please a woman,” for example. If she’s not spelling it out, then she’s just trying to lead you on. Don’t fall for it.
Most Friday Nights You’ll Find Me: At the Club!
Not all party girls like to hookup. But this is still a major green flag in your search for sex. If she’s serious about this, you have a much better chance of getting her out on the dance floor, having a great time, and getting a couple drinks in her. From there, it’s a natural progression to the bedroom. This is a major sign that you should message this woman and ask her out to the club pronto.
One day, all women will feel free to say that they just want to hookup. Until then, you should brush up on your decoder skills because you have to read between the lines to know the ladies who are really open for business.