There are two parts to dating: romance and sex. When you’re casually dating, just because you’re interested in one night stands or casual hookups, doesn’t mean that she doesn’t expect to be romanced. Women are emotional, and they want to have a little fun outside the bedroom. This is why you have to go into a date with a plan. Start with the date – where you’re going to dinner, what you’ll talk about, and how you’ll invite her back to your place. Then, move onto to bedroom possibilities – get your condoms ready, ideas about foreplay, and what you’re interested in. Once you finish dinner, though, and get her back to your place, you want to make sure your plans are solid. Here are some foreplay ideas that will have the ladies coming back for more.
Be That Guy with the Vibrator
Women love a man that understands their bodies and what gives them pleasure. If you whip out a vibrator when she’s at your place and explain that you stock toys for fun times in bed, she’ll be impressed. Make sure, of course, that you take all the necessary hygienic and safety precautions. Always use a condom when you’re playing with sex toys, and assure her that you’re disease free. A kinky guy may surprise her, so be ready for questions. Once you get into it, though, she’s going to be coming back for more, in more ways than one.
If you’re a kinky type of guy, this may seem tame. Remember that first hookups are not the place to go crazy with super kinky stuff, though. Blindfolds are a great way to spice things up, especially if you’re attending to her. Women don’t expect guys to put them first, so when the clothes come off, the blindfold goes on. The best thing about blindfolds is that it stimulates the other senses, since one is cut off. Go for all the most sensitive parts of her body, and pay attention to what she responds to.
It seems like dirty talk would be a better idea for erotic texts, or even during sex itself, but it can serve a much greater purpose. As every man knows, part of the hottest sex you can have is the buildup. If you have chemistry with a woman and you’re about to consummate the mutual attraction, try some dirty talk. Ask her what her dirtiest fantasy is, or what she wants to do to you. This works even better if it’s in a public place, because then it’s doubly naughty. You can really play this tactic up by asking questions, and being descriptive. If you’re going to engage in dirty talk, you have to be creative. Don’t just say you want to take her back to your place and get down to business. Instead, first ask about what she wants and fantasizes about, and then add in your own thoughts. This can be as dirty as you like, but gauge how far you should go by what she says first. It can heighten arousal to new levels and make the sex mind blowing once you finally get to it.