When you’re out at the club and you meet a hot woman you’re probably going to have one thing on your mind: meeting her. All of her womanly parts and long hair are calling to you, and you just have to do whatever it takes to get close to her and talk. She might seem like she’s giving you the cold shoulder, but that’s probably just because she wants a guy that will chase her. While this all seems fine and dandy in your head, she’s actually going to be trying to signal her friends that you’re a creep and you should go away. Having a one track mind can be good sometimes, but in this case it’s only going to lead to her thinking you’re a stalker and probably spreading the news.
Get Your Head Out of the Game
While it’s not always something you can control, stopping to think about what you’re saying and the kind of person you’re showing that you are can be enough to stop you from overstepping her boundaries. If you’re really not capable of that, then you should stop trying to talk to women until you are. It’s never okay to make a woman feel like you’re bothering them to the point of being creepy. That’s a step right before her being scared. You’re harmless, but she doesn’t know that.
Instances Where You Should Back Off
At dance clubs it’s all about, you guessed it, dancing. But just because everyone else is grinding on each other doesn’t mean that it’s all consensual. You don’t want to be that guy who’s going around and inching up behind women to get their asses in your crotch’s vicinity. Even if she’s going around bending over in front of guys and shaking it doesn’t entitle you to get up on her. She has the right to do whatever she wants with that ass, and it might not be you. Ask her to dance with you. Approach with a smile and dance off to the side. Having a good sense of humor will give off a good feeling to her so you’re more likely to get what you want.