Men like to brag about their experience no matter whom they’re talking to. This almost always has a way of backfiring on them. Women do not want to think about how experienced you are because it means that you have had sex with other women. Believe it or not, when you’re too great in bed, some women consider it a negative thing rather than something positive.
You Get Around
Many times you may think that being experienced is impressive to women, but that isn’t always the case. In fact, some women find it a huge turnoff when a man is overly experienced. To them, this means that he has slept with a lot of people and could potentially have sexually transmitted diseases. Not only do women think you may be a huge risk for STDs, they also think that you only care about yourself. Why else would you have gotten so lucky with so many different women?
The best thing to do when faced with the question of how many women you have been with is lie. Do not give her a specific number. In fact, you should tell her than you have only had sex with a few women because you prefer that you and a woman mesh well in regards to your personality before you have sex with her. Even if she is only interested in a no-strings hookup with you, she will appreciate your honesty and will recognize that you have what other guys don’t. Sex with her is almost guaranteed with this method.
You’re Too Good in Bed
We know it sounds crazy, but being too good in bad can sometimes be a bad thing depending on the woman you’re having sex with. Some women find it a turn off when a man is so experienced that she doesn’t even need to communicate her needs and wants to him. Most women like to tell men what to do, and while they may enjoy not having to tell you what to do when the two of you are having sex, she may start to feel like there’s nothing else keeping her interested in you. You may quickly become the guy that she calls late at night when she wants sex. If you’re fine with that, you’re in luck. However, keep in mind that after a while, you can start to feel used and taken advantage of.
Experience is great, but it can still have its disadvantages. Luckily, it is easy to pretend like you aren’t as good as you really are, and you won’t have to worry about turning women off in the process.