Give Yourself Credit
Have you even thought about the guts that it takes to go up to a girl and ask her out? You don’t know who she is or why she’s there, you just know that you like what you see and want to get to know her better. So what if she dropped you like a bag of crap. You still went up to her and gave it a shot. Give yourself some credit, man. That took balls.
Have a Good Attitude
When she’s saying no, you might just want to grimace and run away, but that’s not going to make things better. Instead smile, say something like “thanks for your time”, and walk away. No matter how you’re feeling inside it’s important that you keep a good attitude. Not only will it make her think that you’re actually a nice guy, it will help out future you. Women are attracted to guys with a good attitude. When you’re gracefully bowing out after the letdown, another woman near the scene might notice how well you handled it. Impress her enough and she could actually end up approaching you since you’ve shown her a good side of you.
Get Over Yourself
Guys react in anger because they don’t like being told no and because they feel stupid. But the truth of the matter is that no one else cares but you. So get over it. If your buddies are around and they give you crap it will suck, but give them another drink or two and they won’t even remember. The same goes for the woman you were hitting on. After you’ve hit the road she will just know that at some point a guy wanted to buy her a drink and try to get to know her. Even then she’s probably barely going to remember since you had such a nice guy attitude. Making fewer waves equal less embarrassment overall. Given time, you probably won’t even remember it.
Don’t Take It Personally
Maybe you’re not her type. Maybe she’s been hurt before. Maybe it’s a girl’s night out. There are countless maybes that lend themselves to the idea that she just doesn’t want you. Who knows why? You’re not going to have a shot with every woman out there because they all want different things. Some get judged at face value while others are more in depth. It could seriously be something as simple as you reminding her of someone she doesn’t like, like an old boyfriend or even a pop star whose songs she hates. It’s not always your fault.