“You have great eyes!”
The great thing about this line is that it could really mean anything. Her eyes are pretty. Her make up is good. It’s very nonspecific but that’s exactly why it works so well. Women are all desperate to have distinctive eyes. They’re the “windows to the soul,” and all of that. Compliment her eyes, and she’ll feel like she’s successful.
“You seem so genuine!”
What does this even mean? No guy’s really sure, but the ladies eat it up. You seem very sincere about drinking as much as you can? You’re very honest in the way that you’re present at this bar? Just look into her eyes and say you can tell what a genuine person she is, and you’ll have her eating out of your hand.
“That’s so interesting.”
This filler compliment should be in your go to pile already. Ladies love being told that you care about what they have to say, and they’re likely to respond positively to the change if you can give them something good to focus on. Talking about themselves is a great way for them to relax and decide that they like you, and this filler phrase makes it sound like you’re engaged in the conversation even when you’re checking out the score on the bar television over her shoulder.
Laugh at Her Jokes
Women are always complaining that they have to laugh at our jokes even if they’re not funny. Turn the tables on her, and she’ll be so flattered she won’t know what to do. Women say they want a man who can make them laugh; be the man that she can make laugh, and you’ll stand out from the crowd. This might seem like the most basic advice, but throwing in a fake chuckle when you need one is a good way to keep her attention fixed on you.
“You smell great.”
If you want to flatter her, compliment her scent. Women’s products are always full of scents; maybe it’s her soap or her shampoo, if she didn’t put perfume on. No matter what, she’ll find something to attribute the good smell too, and this will boost her confidence. Smell is one of the senses that women are told they don’t appeal to; that’s why everything for them is doused in fragrance. Knowing that they beat the curve, everything they’ve put on works, and they smell great will light them up.
These compliments are the most basic you can get. Toss them into the conversation between stories about her co-workers and her family, and you’ll be shining at the center of her attention. She’ll be thrilled, and it won’t even occur to her that you’re using flattery. You’ll just come off as that much of a charmer.